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(was @ostentatiousoakley) hey, I'm Lauren (she/her). I'm 20, and this is my blog. feel welcome to send me anything, anytime!

thentheysaidburnher

All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt for saying no.

dirtydarwin

read it again and again

lierdumoa

Understand that this applies even to non-sexual situations. Women are more likely to be asked for favors from coworkers. Regular “can you file this for me” / “can you cover my shift” / “can you finish up this paperwork” workplace favors. Men are less likely to return those favors. Women are more likely to be seen as “difficult to work with” if they refuse to do favors when requested. Being viewed as ungenerous has negative social and professional consequences.

So yes, even gay men benefit. All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt, not just physically, but also socially and professionally, for saying no to anything at all.

2 years ago • 317,920 notes
1863-project:
“ therothwoman:
“ aegipanomnicorn:
“ calderonbeta:
“ Nothing about us without us.
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This April, don’t support an organization that harms autistic people.
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calderonbeta

Nothing about us without us. 

Image description:
[pale purple and yellow background with dark text]
This April, don’t support an organization that harms autistic people.
[crossed out logo for Autism Speaks]
Support one built by autistic people, for autistic people.
[logos for the Autistic Self Advocacy Network and the Autism Women’s Network]

aegipanomnicorn

Reblogging to spread the word, cause evidence shows that Autism $peaks are classic horror movie villains.

therothwoman

Reblogging because I’ve always wondered who to support instead of AS.

1863-project

To every friend of mine who reblogs this, thank you. It means I can trust you. <3

2 years ago • 209,710 notes

muppethole

it's so funny seeing people on twitter pining after tumblr like "damn the tagging system was great" or "i miss customizing my own page" it's like that scene in movies where everyone eulogizes a character who's very much still alive and in the room

2 years ago • 74,525 notes